A Love Letter to My Wife
Posted: Monday, August 30, 2010
by Abe Blauvelt
From my earliest memories, I had a dream I always hoped would come true. Even as a child I dreamed of one day finding true love. Silly, I know, for a child to dream of love. But still, it was so very important to me. I had always wanted to spend my life loving a beautiful woman, one who possessed just as much love for me, as I had for her. Two failed marriages later, I had nearly given up on that dream. I had resigned myself to the fact that perhaps love was one dream I would never achieve, no matter how hard I tried. I had searched and searched throughout the years, all to no avail. What a difficult time that was for me! I had nearly lost myself, completely.
It wasn't long before we realized that what we had spent our lives looking for was now right in front of us. No one else would ever be enough for either of us. Bloody hell, no one could possibly put up with either of us!! My God did we talk often, but we never ran out of things to discuss, and we loved every minute we spent together! Our similarities continued to grow, on levels I am afraid I do not have the words to adequately describe. As love blossomed, so did this amazing connection. We could actually "feel" one another's emotions; happiness, fear, anger, pain, but mostly importantly, love. Never before had I experienced such a thing, nor will I ever again. This connection between us, it is yet one more thing I fear I do not have the words to adequately describe, nor do I know if there are any out there who would believe us if we were to even attempt to describe it.
Even with all this love, and with this immense connection, there are days we literally butt heads. However, the amazing thing about it is that we actually look forward to this head butting! It's not what you think it is. Instead, it is more akin to foreplay. Imagine, two stubborn individuals literally butting heads, but doing so with more love than most can possibly imagine!
Amore della mia vita, I had searched from one end of this country to the other looking for you, even though I knew not what I was searching for at the time. My love for you knows no bounds. You are everything to me, for without you, I am nothing. Nothing in this world can come between us when we stand together, side by side. We will face every adversary, every obstacle, together. And may God help anyone who gets in our way!
Ti amo mia moglie bella. Thank you for being my wife, for loving me as much as you do, and for never giving up, even when life fought so hard to get in our way. You are right, the past chaos does not matter. All that matters is where we are now, and what we will do together in the days to come. I am proud and honored to be il vostro marito. Per sempre.
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More commentsBeautiful love story, indeed. Thank you, Abe for sharing this with us. A well-written piece.
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Hi Abe.What a wonderful relationship you and your wife have! And I think that you have expressed it very well.My husband and and I celebrated our 35th wedding anniversary yesterday. We still have things to talk about, we still love each other more strongly than words can describe. We are a team in all ways and things and, as for you, nothing stands in our way when we make up our minds to do something together. We were d*** lucky from the get go. No false starts with other partners. I am sooo glad that you have found your soul mate! Isn't it wonderful!My best to you and thanks for a look at your love. It's made my day.DianneHi there Dianne, thanks for your comment. I hope the wife and I will be as happy and you and your husband are after 35 years. In this day and age it says a lot about your commitment to each other.
Mick and I are like that too in that we are so much the same - forget that part about opposites attract unless you want to spend much time on a roller coaster - going hand in hand through life is so much more satisfying!Yeah Marijo, all my failed relationships were with women who were the opposite of me. Give me similarities any day.
Very cool. You should print this out and keep it so that your children can find this one day...-BrombergDon't tell anyone but I've already started a book of love letters to both my wife and children. Shhh
Hi Abe there's not much I can say as my fellow warpies have said it all. Anyhow still would like to say I am glad you both have happiness in your life, coz only god knows you waited long enough after two failed marriages.Wishing you and your lovely wife plenty more head butt timesKeep wellKacyThanks for the comment Kacy
Abe, you deserve the best and thank you for sharing this incredible testimony on love and for expressing it so wondrously. SuzyWow thanks a lot for saying so.
I don't think your dream was strange at all Abe. I remember having the same dream when I was young. Wanting someone to love whole heartedly who loved me as much. I predict your fan club is about to grow. All women of course. Wow. My guess is even your two ex-wives would probably join, after reading this. Your wife is a lucky woman. And you of course are a lucky man. Beautifully written Abe!My 2nd ex came back after I had met my soul mate and asked for another chance. She realized too late what she had. I got the better woman in the end. Thanks for the comment Brianna
Thank you for sharing failed love affair with two women. We in India - divorce is not acceptable in Indian culture. I'm still single, very demanding?I wish I didn't have 2 divorces behind me. I thought I was a complete failure until I found the right woman. Stay single until you know in your heart you made the right choice.
Abe! Very nice buddy...A relationship which is amazing and should be that way.Thanks a lot guy.
It is so wonderful to read something from a male writer who is not too shy to express how he feels. I feel the love you have for your lucky lady because I share a similar relationship with my third husband. He was the savior who saved me from my life as a battered women. So to others out there who do not think this could happen to you - or that maybe love will never come into your life - take heed of the words this man has written because it can happen to you if you let it.If I could hug you I would. Getting out of an abusive relationship isn't easy and to break the cycle and find a good guy almost impossible. Good for you!
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